At 15, Jayden Lalchan should have been looking ahead to a bright future. The school he attended, St Stephen’s College in Princes Town, should have provided a safe, nurturing environment where he could learn and grow.
But his parents claim it was in that space that Jayden was bullied relentlessly and fell into such deep despair that he ended his life on October 3.
Fareeda and Rohan Lalchan further allege officials at the school took no action to address their son’s many reports of bullying, even when his tormentors started sending threats that made him afraid to leave the school compound on his own.
While all the tragic details of Jayden’s untimely end are not known, it appears that many red flags were ignored over an extended period. If his parents’ accounts are to be believed, his complaints were not handled with urgency and there was a tragic outcome.
Jayden’s death, therefore, could have been avoided if the reported bullying he was subjected to had been seen as dangerous and life-threatening. It could be that his teachers and other school staff were not sensitised about bullying and its life-altering consequences, including the long-lasting psychological, emotional and physical problems it causes.
Unfortunately, his case is not isolated. For years there have been warnings about increases in direct bullying and cyberbullying in local schools.
In 2006, UWI’s Vidya Lall researched bullying among Third Standard pupils and found that 20 per cent of them had been bullied.
Then, in 2011, in an in-depth report published by this newspaper, the then-president of the National Parent Teachers’ Association (NPTA), Zena Ramatali, expressed concern that with cell phones and other electronic devices accessible in classrooms, there had been a marked increase in cyberbullying. She said the organisation had been getting reports about students sending threats online and via text messages to other students, as well as breaking into the social media accounts of schoolmates and even circulating sexually suggestive photos.
Ms Ramatali had warned then that if the issue was not tackled immediately, there could be far-reaching consequences, including suicide.
The issue of bullying is addressed in the National School Code of Conduct, with revisions that tackle, among other things, the development of “operational policies on bullying with the input of all school personnel and the guidance of trained professionals where necessary.”
However, Jayden’s case raises questions about how effectively these provisions are being communicated to staff and students in schools and enforced. More needs to be done to deal with all the disturbing dimensions of this problem.
There have been calls over the years for a standalone bullying policy with clear and detailed provisions for anonymous reporting and regulations that mandate principals to take actions such as notifying the police within a prescribed period.
And anti-bullying culture needs to be cultivated in every primary and secondary school so that students are taught to identify bullying and principals and staff should be alert to activities in every part of the school compound.
These efforts should also go beyond the perimeters of the school so that the wider public is encouraged to monitor and report bullying.
The many vulnerable young people who are suffering silently deserve to be heard, supported and protected. The bullies also need to be dealt with firmly.
Bullying is dangerous and disruptive behaviour that should never be ignored or underestimated.