Social media is addictive. Yes, it’s addictive man, uncle, pops, auntie, Mamoo, it’s addictive. It’s addictive if you define addiction as getting such a dopamine rush that you feel compelled to reach for the cellphone as soon as you open your eyes in the morning or use your cellphone for hours at a time. It’s addictive for man, woman and child and the addiction of the parents is a major part of the problem. How can you acknowledge that there is something wrong with what your child is doing if you are doing the exact same thing?
So, acknowledge it and live with it or do something about your addiction and your child, because it harms your child.
How similar is this to a nicotine addiction? As was a central question 30 years ago when Big Tobacco was being sued, is Big Tech intentionally designing its product to hook young people?
The answer is yes. The addictions are similar, and Big Tech is just as culpable as Big Tobacco.
Up to now, tech company executives have been able to protect themselves using the stale but effective defence used in the past: it’s not their fault if people use their product and get harmed. Unless you are designing it to be addictive and you know it. And this is what has just been shown.
All over the world, governments are beginning to take measures to assist parents and children in limiting the time they spend on social media.
Australia was the first to do this and children under 16 are not allowed to register on social media platforms. Other countries have plans in place. The UK is considering an Australia-style ban for children under 16 and last week announced plans to advise parents to limit screen time for children under five to no more than an hour a day and none for the under twos.
France has just passed a bill banning social media for children under 15. Spain has announced plans to ban social media access for minors under 16. Denmark is set to ban social media for children under 15, expected as soon as mid-2026.
Greece, Norway, and Portugal are actively debating or in the process of finalising similar under-15 or under-16 bans. Austria is the latest country to propose social media restriction for young people. The country is drafting legislation to ban under-14s from sites such as TikTok. Similar restrictions took effect in Indonesia last weekend.
Even China is looking at legislation to limit social media use to 40 minutes per day for under-eights, one hour per day for 8-16s, and two hours per day for 16-18s. They are also thinking about preventing minors from accessing the Internet between 10 pm and 6 am.
Why the flurry of activity now? Because we are now certain that social media damages children’s brains, causes them to think less and suffer from anxiety and depression. Because it causes body dysmorphia and eating disorders, cyberbullying and suicide and opens them up to grooming and sexual exploitation.
Now, another front in the war against Big Tech has opened up in the good ole USA. Last Monday, in the first trial of its kind, a jury in New Mexico found Meta liable for failing to protect young people from online dangers, including sexually explicit content, solicitation and human trafficking and ordered the company to pay a $375 million penalty.
Then on Wednesday, in California, a young woman prevailed in a lawsuit against Meta Platforms and Google’s YouTube, in which she accused them of designing their apps to be as addictive and harmful to adolescents as cigarettes. Jurors found the tech companies to be negligent in having failed to provide adequate warnings about the potential dangers of their products.
What seemed to persuade the jury were features that Meta and YouTube had built into their software like infinite scroll, algorithmic recommendations and autoplay videos designed to get young users to compulsively engage with the platforms. Internal company documents from Meta and YouTube executives showed they knew of and discussed the negative effects of their products on children. The jury found that social media sites were built specifically to be addictive and that tech companies knowingly work to hook children for profit.
The solution is not to tell parents what to do. Nor to put up warning labels. Those help but are the easy way out for governments. The solution is to make the tech companies change their algorithms to decrease the addictive process and if they don’t, punish them with fines. A precedent has been set. Social media is addictive.
